AM I HOLDING ON TO SOMETHING THAT I NEED TO LET GO ?

I wonder if  I ever have that moment when I am holding onto something that I should have let go. Maybe it's my friendship in secondary school, I could never let go of my best friend in secondary school. Our relationship had turned cold and the friendship turned sour. Yet I still hold this small hope that maybe just one day we may be friends again.

Just like the old times. 

We have stopped talking, ever since everything went down hill. I didn't face her like what I should have instead like a coward I ignore her pretending that everything is as per usual. Hiding away like a coward while letting time and resentment chip away our friendship. I did try to work up my courage to confront, but friendship is a two-way lane.

 She refuses to acknowledge the very friendship that we once have. Maybe to her, it meant nothing and the thought of it anger me. She stops trying while I got tired of waiting that she try. I didn't move on but simply cover a gauze over my wounds. Hiding the rotting flesh that is eating away my trust for genuine friendship.

Why is a genuine friendship so hard to come by.

Did I set my standard too high or is it just the high heavens of the lord trying to play with me. Back to something that I need to let go that I am holding onto. 

It is indeed friendship again.

My close friend of the secondary school. I will call her cat in this entry. Cat was a nice person, my friend. Is she a good friend, maybe? I treasure her despite whatever that happened, maybe it is because of the past friendship that make me so adamant to make me and her relationship survive through the tunnel of time. 

Yet, the truth is we are drifting apart. we rarely message now. I have no idea what is going with her neither does her of me. Should I let go and let time do its thing or should I fight once more for the disappearing friendship that is dwindling away like fluttering ash… 

What if I fall back injured and wounded again. What if that the value I see in our relationship and her towards ours is different. A million what-ifs. The fear of losing out. The fear of being told to the face that the thing that I treasure. 

That I treasure is worthless in her eyes. I feel that I need to let things take it course... Maybe cat will stay on in life, maybe not … It is just another part and parcel things in life.

“Growth is painful. Change is painful. But nothing is as painful as staying stuck somewhere you don't belong.”

with love, Kah yee

WHAT AM I REALLY AFRAID OF ?

I am really scared of a lot of things. It is a simple “joy” as humans to be afraid of a lot of things. I am scared of dying without ever doing what i wanted in life. There is more where this comes from but what i am really scared of. 

That is a difficult question.

What i am really afraid of is that in this whole vast earth of ours. I would not find a single person that love me for who i am. That treasured my opinions and my horrible habits. That will love my every crook and curves even the bad ones. I am scared of not being loves  by my loved ones.

Simply, because I craved affection. From young, the things that were craved in my bones were discipline. I was not showered with love, but enforced with disciple that were craved into my bones with cane.

Not to mention, the fact i am from an asian family. Their love language were not expressed openly with words, hugs or kisses. I craved the affection of a soulmate, not necessary a lover but someone that could read me like a open book. I meant, guys raise you're hands if you have a person that knows you more than you know yourself.

I probably have more deep fears that i ever know consciously. Sometimes it is strange just by writing down ones feelings, thoughts and emotions. You learn more about yourself that you ever knew. I wonder if there is a word for this. Each time i find this self-discovery new yet exciting.

Back to the point, of my deepest fear. I think in time my list will most likely change…

With love, kahyee

IF THIS WERE THE LAST DAY OF MY LIFE,WOULD I WANT TO DO WHAT IM ABOUT TO DO ?

 I MIGHT be all over the place, you have been warned... 

Nope. 

Hell No.

I would take all my money and spent it on food. At the very least i want to die a happy girl. This happy girl loves food so that would be what i would do. I would eat my heart out. If i have a crush maybe i would confessed. But, i don’t.

So yeah 

Basically, my days consist of studying, day dreaming, thinking what am i going to eat for lunch, dinner and supper. As you can see very exciting things. It might be mundane but still i treasure the everyday normality that i have in my everyday life.

Even though I would not live like everyday is my last day because it is crazy and irresponsible. It is built in my character that i am responsible for my own choices as well as my future. 

If there was not a tomorrow i would not care. 

The reality is there is a tomorrow and the day after tomorrow. Still i would not mind if my last day on earth is my mundane routine. I think if it were my last day on earth i would treasure every last breath i take. That is probably the extend of what i could think of. 

The idea of last day of earth seem so out there, so unrealistic, so unreal. Maybe even i would not know what i will do, because i am so filled with contradiction. Yet, one thing for sure is that i would not waste my time on crying, being angry or hopeless. 

If and when there is not future anymore. I believe that all humans will behave erratically insane even myself. I guess that is why, i truly have no idea what i would do.

The concept of the world ending and everything have always boggle my head, each time i have no idea why i did not have an idea.

Strangely understandable.

If by the high heaven of possibility, i met a human being that knows exactly what he/she would do in the last day or moments of their days. I would salute simply because i don't have the ability to wrap my head of the concept of last day or last moment. The though of losing hope even very enjoyable, i would say. 

By some chance in the absence of hope, someone is able feel happy and enjoy life. That is truly amicable. I MIGHT be all over the place, you have been warned... 

Love, kahyee

MY RECENT

Lately, my emotion have been a little imbalance. My personality is pretty much contradicting i can be introverted to extroverted depending on the person i am with. After the recent betrayer or should i say fight with my friend at the start of the new school, i am left friendless.

 Even though over time i did make some friends but still i feel there is always this immerse gap between me and them. I feel like the gap is something i can never close nor shorten. Sometimes when they mingle with their respective friend and boyfriend i feel a little left out .

I did join their clique but still i feel like an outsider looking in. No matter, what i try to be grateful with what i already have. At the very least, i am not aloof and disconnected with the class. Sometimes i feel that it is better if i go off and be a loner.

Carefree and easy.

 However, the course that i am studying makes it impossible. My course has a constant need to do group work, short presentation, project work. All of these requires the need to be in a team or a group. The best part we formed our own group, in the above cases. So it is beyond hellish that without friends what you have to go through to get into group. Better yet , you might just end up with you're “favourite “ person

So basically I've been going through a hard time with transition as well as all sort of emotions that is going through my head. Do you know the feeling when for once you want to try you're best . Yet reality, just slap you in the face. 

There is always the saying where as long as you try, something will change. It did not in this case, i got hurt for opening my heart. For trying, it makes me feel so vulnerable, so pathetic for even trying.  

Sometimes when i think about it i feel anger. I do want to murder her maybe drown her but you can not force people to see the value in you. 

The difference in character is what shape individualised. The world is much prettier to be unique and individual. There are some things, that you wish this would happen this way or that way but guess what its life. 

I know it sucks.

I was very much damage because it. I broke down when i am alone and frequent melt downs while i drown myself in my own negativity. I feel like i was the only one who was trying. That she was looking down on me as if i was the joke of the year. 

Maybe she did or did not.

It did not matter. 

I was pretty much in my head. Withdrawal from the world, i became increasing consciously in the class. I remember feel like a clown when i am in class. Pretty much a depressed loner desperate need to relieve my pain, so i did what i should. 

I seek the school counsellor. It actually help a lot. For the first few session, non-stop i would cry. Even i did not know that i had so much sadness in me. I needed someone to be there for me when family members were not an option. She was there. She help me see a different picture, not necessary a solution. It kept me sane when i feel like i am going insane.

The incident with my “ friend” was the tipping point of all the emotions that i have kept in me. Unknowingly stressing myself, that was the point that everything collapsed under the pressure of circumstances. 

I believe i am strong. 

More than just that girl that cry because her friend left her. From inside out, i despise myself for being weak. Everyone has their moments.

For me maybe that was it.

Luckily, everything got better. I got new friends. Still the insurmountable gap was there. For now i will go with a cautious heart and the flow of things. I don't expect much. I really do not want to be hurt again. I hope this time life will give my heart a break. 

Recently i have been on the list for a school trip to Vietnam. It is a culture as well as educational Four days three night trip. I hope i would get it. Wish me luck.

By the way, there have been a ton of project. Fingers crossed that i will survive this with flying colours.

My main goal is my school work. Focus on school work and do not let my emotions distract me!!  

 “It is not in the stars to hold our destiny but in ourselves”

-William Shakespeare

with love, kahyee

WHAT WORRIES ME THE MOST ABOUT THE FUTURE ?

I think I'm most concern about my future job. What would i do for a living? Is my job supporting the lifestyle that i want. 

Am i happy in this distant future . That is a million of questions that i have for my future.The thing is you will never have an answer for something that is this intangible.

I am worried about a lot of stuff. 

I hope that whatever difficulty i face in the future i would hold courage and faith near my heart. I worry about my grandma. How is she? Is she still here with me? How am i doing without her ? I hope that i can pull through everything with my head strong.

Honestly i worry about lots of different random stuff. For example when i am walking on the roadside would a car just crash into me. My family medical history is filled with cancer, sometimes i would also wonder if maybe one day it would be my turn. 

I think the thought of me running out of time to experience life worries me the most.

What could be the worst, not having to love someone to the point where you are not just a self-absorbed human being. I want to try and experience that.

I have not yet found my soulmate. Someone that i can trust 100 percent. With a look, he/she would know what i am thinking. A best friend but more than that, a relationship that can withstand the torment of time.

If i were to die know i would missed out on a lot of things that i could have experience. 

I have not yet meet the love of my life. 

I have not yet have the experience of being a mother. I heard it is life changing yet beautiful experience.

I want to see the world. 

There is a lot of things that i have not done yet. Sometimes the constant worrying of the ever happening scares me. Still, i believe that one day i would complete these time as a go through life.

I believe it is human nature to worry about the inevitable and the blank. Sometimes it can be a fun experience. It is life so lets experience this feeling, emotion, sensation with an open heart.

love, 

kahyee

WHO AM I ?

This question is quite hard. Sometimes even i forget my identity as myself. I know it sounds strange how can you forget you’re self. you are constantly with you. It might come as strange but sometimes you get a little lost in this playground called life. It is hard to separate yourself sometimes from everything that is going on. Not to mention, you have so much people around constantly telling you that you are this you are that.

So the me right now is going to answer that question, maybe i occasionally would still get lost. Yet, there are still things that remain in this ever changing state. I am a girl with a love for books and novel. I like to be in my own world, to think to wonder. More in details about myself i love television shows, movies and the list goes on. 

Anything that have a story is basically my love. Did i mention i have big loves for vampire dairies i can watch the whole season 1- 6 in one go again and i will still be entertain. Speaking of which i waiting for season 7 episode 3 to come out …. 

Mannnn…

I LOVE LOVE VAMPIRE DAIRIES!!!

What else about me…

I treat relationship seriously. To me, i want a relationship that is genuine that is something of substance. Not just something that is for fun. I know i sound like someone over forty years of age, but i find something in true relationship; nice and precious. Even if we may not end up together at least you know we tried. At the very least we love from the bottom of our hearts. Maybe my views of love is too innocent, too young, too immature but for now this is what i hold dear.

Oh and i might be crazy… said my precious devil-like baby sister

Yeah .. Amazing sisterly love we have there. Anyways i have always find myself filled with contradiction. I can be this confident girl that is daring and willing to try anything while on the other hand i am this girl that is not good with people, introvert. Just wanting to spend time alone with myself. 

Strange, Is it ?

I think so too. Sometimes i also feel like i am a little bit insane. Lets be real, i feel like majority of the population are partly insane in some way. 

Right....Or maybe it is just me ...

Anyways with love kahyee

Do you ever have those days that you just feel so exhausted to the point which makes you want to do nothing. Just stare at the emptiness in front of you. The feeling that we all know  so well , the feeling of being lethargic. 

There is always something at the back of my head that nags me to get my shit together. So i did , i took a shower and get myself together. I think this is the case of me not having enough alone time with myself. Which brings me this solution. Tomorrow i am going to have a loner party.  The only one that is invited is me myself and i .

Moving on i just decided to google questions that i should asked myself. At the top of the list is a link that states, the thirty question that i need to start asking myself. I think it is pretty interesting list. So i decided that i would asked them to myself while writing my answer over here.

It should be a pretty fun experience to have. 

Recently, my counsellor  have invited me to create an artwork so that they can put up on the roadshow. I have decide that i wanted to accept it and see how it goes for me. Maybe i can learn new things about myself. It have been so long since i have taken up art again. I hope i can produce something fun, so it would not be a humiliation to my art student background. 

we will see what we get from there.

Till next time , love kahyee

# LIFE

I feel like lately its so chaotic . I am not the type that really care about people thoughts and views about me . My rule of thumb for making friends , is only to have true genuine friend only . This period in my life i feel like i have been more conscious about me and myself as well as others too much. From this I guess you pretty much pick up that i have some trouble with my "friend". I have no idea what the hell of a phase i am going through but i will have faith in my own heart that i will grow through this .

I will come out stronger from this. I can not force people to see the good in me . If they cant see it its their lost , i will same my care and trust to someone that deserve it. Still, i hope one day i am able to find my soul mate. Soulmate as in friends that can connect in a deeper meaning a real relationship. Rather something superficial , something true that can last through the hardship of time. To add i am still not ready for romantic relationship , so i guess i will wait for the right time. When both my heart and soul is mature enough to have a romantic relationship. Anyways i am going off point , but my point is that someday i will reach there ; my own personal milestone.

JUST YOU WAIT !!!

 The goal for now is to focus on myself . Exploring and finding my own identity in this somewhat chaotic world of mine. You know maybe this could be a new self discovery path to growth and maturity. I sincerely hope i am right. For now i am seeing the school counsellor , and sorting everything . Things have been crazy. For starters, my grandma who literally raised me have terminal cancer.

I know it in my heart that life have it up and down. Right now, I just want to go through all this with a calm and open mind. It is a natural course of action that life will go through . Right now i try to treasure her days her with me the best i can , the best i could. After writing this i feel much better. Just a moment ago i was feeling down , now i think i got my strength back.

GO KAHYEE!!!!

It is truly strange whenever i feel frustrated , writing always able to release this negative energy.

GO GURL POWER !!!

ANYWAYS, New years are coming sooon. This sista really need her holidays but before that i have to slay the dragon called project. I am sure i will get through this just fine , like always i need to have good mindset and put my mind to do it. It is going to be fine !!  I CAN DO IT !!!!

With love Kahyee :)

-katherine ho kahyee

Update , and other stuff <♡♥

So this is an update i guess...i have been thinking of doing reviews of products that i have used , that are my fravourite or that i dislike  . It will probably be up soon .Also i will also be uploading randomn post of randomn stuff , well its not like i have not upload randomn post .

This is happening because i will be using this app that just give me randomn topics to write on . Sort of like practising my writing skills , because my tense and grammer are crappy and by practising i hope i can improve on my writings skills , plus with this  i can write understand more of myself , so yeah <♡

Enough of updates , recently my mother has been obsessing over the fact that i have to sleep early . Honestly sometimes i wish i could but the truth is i am a night owl.

In the  day im like totally on full blown procrastinator state, unmotivatednat all .  Just do not feel like doing anything other than sit in front of my computer watch english television shows , runningman , manga , anime , eat , and stare blank into the openess . Of course that is when im at home , though at school i am quite focus . ;0

Anyways at night /evening its different , i feel like i can concentrade better focus more and think better , its quiteter too. Often then not , i start my homework at around evening , at times when i have tons of homework or i got to revise for test . It usually drags to 1am to 2 am ...

Tee hee..

I know it is all excuses :p

I understand what she getting at though , i know staying up late but...you know :p its like smoking ,i guess. You know its bad but you still ended up smoking  ..heh heh
Just to be clear , i am not smoking but my grandma smokes so i kind of understand . Plus i hate the smell of smoke , i have been living with my grandma from time to time . So , yeah ....

Then again i will try to sleep early , probably ..

Well , i am going to have my n level soon pretty nervous about that too . So will upload as much as i can before that period when i have absolutetly no time at all . For my future i have a direction where i want to go .

I love books especially this that belongs in the fantasy romance ,supernature genre , novel (english or chinese ) and i love writing definatly not a journalist or a news broadcaster.  I dont think i have the material for it but i want to have a job that is ralated to books or writing .

In my previous post , i did mention that i wanted to enter teacher , for now the option remains open but i am still thinking if i have the patient and passion for teaching like i thought i have . I may or may not have it, still figuring it out . One thing for sure is that i want a job where i enjoy and are  comfortable in .

So i got an idea where i am going , let see where life take us , for the time being i will workhard ^^

Fighting !!!

-katherinehokahyee

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Myself at age seven

I do not remember much about myself at age seven but there is this one incident i probably never forget . From what i recall at that time it was my first day of primary school , i was primary one . It was a combination of nervousness and anticipation , everything went by in a blur .

Except for that incident that happen in the toilet , i was washing my hands after i have finish my business . When suddenly out of no where a pair of hands grab me by the shoulder and pull me into the stalls . It was a indian girl that was obviously taller than be probably a primary 6 student , she push me against the side of the toilet stall position herself at the door blocking my only escape route .

She said : "give me your money ."
I did the exactly opposite of what normal people would do when i reply "sorry , i cant " thinking back ,Surprisngly she did not beat the shit out of me . If i were the robber i probably do just that , but then again the fear of being beaten or even the idea of being beaten have not cross my mind when i refused her. Well i was a slow kid back then .

She begged "please , just give me your money , i have no money "
she went on to show me her empty wallet to back up herself , which was just straight up strange .
"Sorry i cant "i knew that if i gave her my one dollar , i would have to starve . Back then my family was not well of . My pocket money was just one dollar enough for a bowl of porriage and that was my lunch .

Just then a voice eco , i dont who that voice belongs to , let just say my memory was a little fuzzy , but it probably belongs to my teacher that came looking for me . It manage to scare the indian girl who ran away as soon as she heard the voice and i was saved by the bell , literally or should i say save by the voice .

Though we did take it up to the principal but the girl was never caught . I wonder how is that indian girl doing , i wonder as i wrote this if she will remember me if we were to stood face to face ...

And to think i was all hyped up for my first day of school , and then i was robbed . Perfect ...

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It have been forever since i posted but quite proud of myself for not just abandoning the blog writing and i am personally guilty of wanting to start a journal and then giving up afterwards ..

I feel that what really motivated me to actually write and stuff is when i'm inspire or in a very emotional place etc. pissed / hot mess :P

Anyways i also write poems in my thumblr account : http://www.tumblr.com/blog/iluvandy

 

lately , i have been good namely not bad , been trying out different things . I guess 2014 will be a start of something new and special , well that s what i felt like anyways ..

Guess what i'm the vice - chair of the class which is kinda special and peculiar from what i normally do which is what i wanted . I normally tend to shy away from leadership roles or any responsibility in class namely because i am lazy and think that managing people is pain in the ass /troublesome which i still do but working on a different mindset .

I want to try new thing , take up new roles have a feel , a experience of being a leader . Smile a little more , learn to love myself , treat myself right and to believe in what i am ,  not what people think i should be . Its what a new year does to you , make you want to move on .

Art has been bugging me the coursework A.K.A the preparatory study is stressful and doesn't really allow much of the moving-on-your-own-pace , which i am used to when i do art .

I mean come on art needs time ! -p

oh , i have recently been to a musical where my school organized and produced it was generally okay but meh for my taste . so we also have lots maybe not lote but a few i was thinking to stay of those performance since after the musical my wallet is feeling lighter than before but well seeing as my friend -classmate -sorta best friend are like urging us to buy the ticket for the band performance and i have never really been to a band performance .

so i was like hmmm okay sure , why not :O plus my teacher are kinda the band teacher/ instructor so gotta support :Lately , i have been good namely not bad , been trying out different things . I guess 2014 will be a start of something new and special , well that s what i felt like anyways ..

Guess what i'm the vice - chair of the class which is kinda special and peculiar from what i normally do which is what i wanted . I normally tend to shy away from leadership roles or any responsibility in class namely because i am lazy and think that managing people is pain in the ass /troublesome which i still do but working on a different mindset .

As always love yourself , remember that out of the million sorta sperms you won the race and you are freaking awesome , amazing and unique :P

-katherine ho kahyee

hey hey ~

Oh ..the holidays are ending soon and i have still have mountains and ...rivers ?[ does that make sense ..? o(~ ~ ) o  ] of homework :P

lately , I'm really not in my perfect condition due to the come and go headaches and dizziness that have been occurring  . Before i forget i promise a certain someone that i will follow them but end up putting it aside ...

sorrie >< Hehehe:P

Basically, my holidays aren't all that fun and amazing so its just boring plain old things that kinda specifically includes me being  stranded on a chair doing my hair . well  re-bonding my hair and getting a hair cut if you're so inclined on nano details :P

The hair cut was fine and everything but i think my hair is just too dammed straight not the natural straight im looking for but i think after a few washes ill be perfect .
 Anyways ( i kept saying anyways -_- )  , lately i have been helping out at my moms shop cause she is low on manpower plus not feeling well too :O

I was think of writing a longer post actually but ahem .. i realized that my life is too freaking boring and to write my day only required around 100 plus word which thus make me feel pathetic 。。。

As always love yourself
-katherine :) WINK ***

First ever movie review on the 47 ronin - read at your own risk

Overall , I actually think the movie itself give us a inside on the minds of a samurai , on what lengths the samurai would go to , to protect its honour. 

And i was actually  confused  , because i have don't really understand how honour is protected thought seppuku , because to me seppuku is no different than you hanging yourself ,cutting your wrist , etc  but to the samurai its totally different .

I wonder if i were in the movie what i would do , would i just stand there and watch the man i love defend his so called honour by killing himself ...?

Anyway, I respect their culture , indeed it gave me another view on samurai and that the so called  " samurai " that is threatening the public by waging his "katana" is an insult to the culture and the honour that samurai so dearly wanted to uphold .

Oh and school holidays is ending in about ten freakin days ..I havent finish my holiday homework  :P I gotta buck up and finish them !!!! why does holidays always seems so short ...ugh !!!

p.p.s love yourself and prayed that i finished the work on time , god bless me

sexuality education

I honestly feel more than ever that schools should educate student more on sexuality education especially schools in singapore . I am a student in singapore .  Although , schools have educate students how period works , why boys have wet dreams . why is it important to have save sex and the varies transmitted disease you could get through exchanging bodily fluid .

Yet , it failed to educate students of how our body works, like how our vaginal is an eco -system that could clean itself and soap is not needed that it would only upset the balance if soap was involve  . That the darked -coloured period blood is actually old blood trapped in the uterus from your last cycle . That the translucent fluid discharge is actually my virginal cleaning itself , all these i did not know .

I was extremely terrified that i had contacted some STD though i have no sexual experience , all because i did not know , i know little of my body except for the varies STDs that the school have rapidly told us   . And the school main purpose is to educate us , not traumatize us into fearing sex or of our bodily functions . i honestly hope from the bottom of my heart that  maybe in the near future that the government would be more open to being sex positive .And teaching us more knowledge about our bodily function .

Last but not least , love yourself :)
-katherinehokahyee

personal updates

yeah!!!!!! I am free from exam finally   -  God , i feel like crying .....:"(

Anyways~ though i haven't receive my overall result for my end of year examination but i aim to have get a B3 for at least my maths and English. 
In order, to obtain  my EMB3 to get a feel of how i may fair on N levels . 

I think it is super important since it is already my end of year for secondary three and the start of  next year as secondary four might not be all unicorns and rainbows.

- The moral of the story is REALITY SUCK... you have my condolences, couple in the picture .....


well, best of luck and wishes for my examination .


My ultimate goal for N level is to fulfill the requirement for the PFP courses . so i can proceed to foundation polytechnic course and get successfully enter poly without wasting one more year in secondary 5 


To avoid , better yet more stress and EXAMINATIONS!!and we are not there yet ........drum-rolls.......

THE FREAK-IN "O" LEVELS 

so , yeah it is going to be a tough journey up ahead but if others can why cant i :)

Now for a intimate information ....

AHEM...AHEM..

so my cup size is .......

HELL, no !

 Although we are not going talk about my cup size but we are going to talk about my siblings  .( yay for you :P)

They are recently being a pain in the ass or should i say pain in the  the ears :Q They are quarreling , shouting , screaming , fighting at each other constantly . 

 -they are not my actual siblings but you'll get the picture ...:L


I meant constantly !!

Now , i think i begin to seriously doubt the saying that kids are just like "angels".

Its more like nightmare from the pits of annoying hell ... 

That may be the fact but they are still unfortunately my siblings . And i will  continue to protect , love ( sometimes...maybe...:P just kidding ..i think :P) and  tease them  ...That is what older sister should do plus its my primary entertainment  . WINK**:P )  

-Katherine with hugs:)

 
 

I NEED A BFF / IM SICK

So I am sick but still I update which totally shows how much I love the audience that are reading this blog and of course my blog in all and in case you don’t know that yet . I now specifically point that out , so kneel down and thank me you peasants (just joking )And since I am sick I will keep it short and sweet and basically summarize in this short entry which makes my life looked pathetically boring but anyways moving on .


I feel like crap on some occasion but still hanging .Though I am  kind of worried that I might not catch up my studies since I will be absent for like two days in a row due to migraine and nauseous in my stomach . And no I am not pregnant in case you are wondering .


So during this home stay, out of the bloom my grandmother suddenly asked me if I have any friends that would message me or call me if I were sick. I have no Idea why she asked me but anyway back to the story . which I would totally not thought about if it wasn’t for my grandmother .


And of course and went on to telling her that I have friends but not all of them are very close like not all of them are in the same class which in other wards translate to  no BFF . I will happily  spill out my heartbreaking stuff on my BFF in my future entries .-see the love and devotion 


Back to the topic I began to get my hopes up like kept wondering if maybe just like one or maybe two would at least message me ask if im okay well it turn up to major disappointment which reminds I wish I could just wish upon a little star and than a good trustworthy BFF that wouldn’t constantly shove me excuse and lies would drop from the sky.


Well I am quite disappointed but I did told myself to keep my hopes so I wouldn’t be as let down as I would be , yet a part of me cant help but hope . Geez , I need a BFF . So I will end of this entry with a quotations by orson welles that totally summarize my feelings . Sooner or later I will meet the right BFF I think well know I sound so depressed :1 still kinda sad since no one message me :(

We're born alone, we live alone, we die alone. Only through our love and friendship can we create the illusion for the moment that we're not alone.

Orson Welles

Just thoughts on hell and on the world we live in - no biggie:)

Here , my point view I think if hell were to actual exist I would be living in it . Think about it people well here on earth we do have evil. The place we living have people like bullies , murderers , pedophiles ,perpetrator , rapers , gang bangers , cannibal , assassin, robbers , muggers and the list goes on
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  People that killed murder the life of others for the sake of themselves. I don’t believe that people don’t have a choice there is always a option there. And whether you want to do good or bad is by your choice and your choice only . So are we living in hell properly not if we are really living in hell then I might as well wnd my life since there is nothing but this corrupt world and smell of greed , but the thing is there is some good .

 Well , for example the man that will be your husband and will stay by you through thick and thin . The happiness of having a child , the purpose of life , the endless wisdom and the constant unknown, the little kind act that a passer-by that will make your day , the few that stands for what they believe even if the odds are against them .

If that so then why do the good/kinds acts are constantly cover by the repulsive evil people that exposed the ugliness in human. And why don’t we focus more good than bad ., that is the question . I personally wonder and ponder over but there is one thing obvious that the choice is ours whether we want to be a good or bad person because in the end when you’re look into the mirror it reflects .
Maybe it’s because we have been disappointed, bullied, screw over just way too many times that believing, giving the person a benefit of doubt is not possible.

evil is there and danger is all so very real .The fact that we live in a cut throat society means that you either adapt or end up another body under someones foot as their stepping stone .you either fight or stay coward for the rest of your exsitance .

I guess if hell were to exist it will be basically describing this cruel reality we live in , we all wish ponder and thought of escaping to some realm where all your hearts and desire may be fulfill but there's no such place in the society that allows never land . And the temporary escapism from reality is always readily available , but that to those who stuck in this temporary never lands thinking that you can stay that forever and forget reality.

Sorry but at one point in your life you gotta face reality and  you have to live with it .It is true that once in a while you can escape and take a short break but the world you're live in reality and its not all rainbow and butterflies . someday you may feel like crap and its like you are living in hell but there is always a silver lining .So don't lose hope .

 I know its easier said than done i guess the thing is you must have to keep moving is this society is  like having a code to stick with and my is to be happy because life is always so short and who knows what may happen tomorrow so i refuse to regret spending my last moment regret is worst thing possible  .

I guess if you really have to say what sort of place we live in then my reply would be both hell and heaven . Maybe the strange thing is us humans the built in survival instinct the determine to live no matter what . I'm sure you have seen miracles of human surviving a disaster and came back alive . I wonder why this is , if you were to say the world all that beautiful neither is it horrible to the point where no good exist , I guess this world we live in is a ugly yet beautiful place :)

do humans need belief ?

 The thing is i am agnostic that i have tried to be in religion to feel a sense of belonging a holy being that purifies all evil and the sinned one could be forgiven but every time i returned from church i realised i often use logic to contradict myself over the beliefs of god . 

And that's what struck me its impossible for me to be christian Cox i don't know  the things that pour out of the bible is really true but genuinely in my heart theres a part that wish i would believe in god . I will definitely be a goody two shoes if I'm christian like no vulgarities  though i generally don't speak them but occasionally slip when you know when life is giving you crap .

   

I think humans need some sort of faith or belief to carry on moving and living  sometimes people get it from their religion. it necessary to have some sort of force to enforce the thin line between good and bad with the temptation to make a mistake and end up with the consequences of a life time.

For me i don't have a religion . The thing that keeps me going  have to firm and strong so when i was really young i search for this sense of belonging in groups , religion and other stuff. The strange thing is everyone is strangely built and different in their own way to blend in i have to sacrifices my personality my character to fit in .

I feel anger , depressed , sad , fear and it hurt to fit in .It hurt to do stuff that i don't like , yet i still feel the endless pit growing in me maybe for some religion fill that pit . 

For a while it did but whenever i got home i still feel lonely i  still this black bottomless pit that eats into my soul . I'm disgusted of myself so much that its repulsive but o found my belief or rather my principal of life . 

                      I WANT TO BE HAPPY 

I know its a simple wish but theres  alot of  people so unhappy upset with anger at their life .I want to change I'm not gotta lie on my death bed leaving this world sad and unhappy still anger at this world . 

At that time struggling to fit in and being unhappy lonely with no friends , I'm not gotta saw my wings , my happiness because of others . life is only so short should i spend every single second dreading , regretting that i have not being myself but another clone  , another follower .

I know everyone is beautiful in their own ways i want to be happy and comfortable with me :)

In this world when common sense doesn't always make sense with anger , hatred , terror in this ugly world i hope that more people wouldn't take their life so easily because they just make life seem so expendable . you haven't make even a footprint so this big big world are you gotta  just die like that .

It kinda hurts that i wish i could have done something , it make me feel my effort the wish to  help so insignificant .  so in this world where death is a easy way out of this ugly yet maybe beautiful world , i want to be happy .I want to experience love , i want to be a mother , i want to have someone love for who i am , i want to be happy .

p/s I'm sorry for not updating :!

 

     

me 2

      
       As promise I'm going to deliver the me part 2 . I guess i miss out quite a lot about me other than that i have a crush who i shall not name , i think he knows that i like him from but he does show his interested in me and occasional he flirt with me .I think ...
 That the think hes not clear about everything and likes him . I think hes cute is it offensive to describe a guy as cute but i just think hes cute and everything . 

       And you know its his lost if he misses me but at same time i don't think it will make s difference even if he confesses since for now my goal is my education i think well in addition i want to find myself .

       Like who am i ?what do i want to do with my life? Is my goal really what i want to do with my life ?

       Life is awfully short and i want to make the most of it doing what makes me happy making sure i don't leave regret . That is a aweful way to die having regret and everything so i prefer to do what i want than regretting i did it rather than regret not doing anything .

       The main  thing is i want to be happy . My belief mainly revolving around don't let others put you down , i think if i feel that something in my gut is correct I'm gotta do it even if it means going against everyone. 

        some people may think im arrogant and stuff but the reality is that you yourself are important and you have to love yourself to be able to love others .

      I think I'm very important and i love myself too among other thing that i am crazy about . And not a lot of people think like that they constantly beat themselves down and the only one that is gotta stop is themselves . 

      If i am hurting because i follow what everyone tells me what to do then you know what.  screw everyone 

        you know what i actually have a checklist on what im gotta do before i die and everything so here the list :

1. wear a wedding gown . once in a life time you should at least wear it and if im dying that would be my dying wish . I  know it sounds so dreamy but you know , i personally feel that wedding gown is the most beautiful dress a woman can have in her life . 

   you will know what wedding gown is the right dress as long as you lay eyes on it and this was the most beautiful dresses for now base on yahoo .

   whenever i see wedding gown i feel that the people will magically transform into the most beautiful happiest woman ever with the right guy and the right dress.

2. find a guy that loves me more than i love him . I want the kind of love that will stay by me just like the song . someone to  stay by you even when your whole world is collapsing and tell you that you dont have to be alone . That kind of love is precious .......

3. have a movie Marathon with all the movie i ever loved which is alot . 
At home with the air con on and junk food like bugger or what ever i like to have at that point in time .     

     just so you know i hate popcorn , i have no idea when i started to dislike it but i just kinda not like it at a certain point in my life .

     I generally prefer action movies and my favorite until now is Total recall . i love it its really thrilling and keeps my heart thumping rapidly .
 hmm..maybe i should do a movie review in comparison with the that was produce on 1990s and the 2012 which i loved .i  generally find the male lead actor  more appealing than the one in 1990s . 

    Thats about it but from time to time i will post blog about me and what really defines me and in some point i can look back and know that how much i have grew these past few years . One last thing , the person that inspires me to start a blog of my own is xia xue . she is really hard to describe and her blog is really good but nowadays she doesn't really blog much so a little let down . 



 

The people that i genuinely detest and scumbag that deserve to rot in hell

   
         Like seriously the title of this entry sounds like I'm gotta talk about my crush but no that's not it . I'm gotta write about this girl that has a b with a itch seriously she likes to freaking push my buttons like cross my line thats not suppose to be cross for no freaking business  and she hates me and i hate her too .
 look feelings do reciprocate!

 Her name is WJ short form because should i waste freaking precious time writing  her name she have been  pissing - teasing-irritating-bossing   me for the past 3 years its still on going . i mean she not my freaking mom yet she just love to do that . And i was the first person that talk to her in school so some times when i think about it i was like what the hell is wrong with this world . Anyways i have no idea why she hate but she does and well me being a kind -loving person will defiantly reciprocate her feeling .

                My goals for  myself with this type of situation  is to react quickly and say something smart to people that tease me in a really b with a itchy way . whatever i guess i should thank god that she is not with me in same  .  It just irritate the hell out of me  just by writing her name although its in  Short form .  I'm not a sunshine girl that goes oh my hater is my supporter or whatever shit . I'm a generally positive person but not that  positive its like asking a person to forgive a person to forgive someone that just stab them . well , words hurt so try to relate . Though its not hard for me to imagine killing her a trillion times in my head if i were to do it real life i would probably have to go to prison and it so totally not Worth it . like why should i serve sentence , hypnotically speaking, because i killed the b with a itch that i hate and plus her body would be totally heavy and troublesome to discard and its disgusting too with all the blood and stuff . so I'm just gotta let her age to death and let karma do the work .  Although she not on top of my i never want to speak to them list but lately she pisses me off and that totally inspire me to tell you how "beautiful" a person can get . 

             And she is not the most "gorgeous"person i seen in my life this guy he bullied me . I remember he hit me with a paddle accusing i wasn't  paddling hard enough and obviously how can a guy and a girl match up to strength but  i tried . He think i wasn't trying and hitter me constantly and curse my family to die and all sorts of really awefull things , i wanted to get away but im in a middle of the seas where can i escape ?I was trapped . It was a really traumatic event and everytime i think of it i get emotional and terrified his in my class and siting quite close to where my sit is its really disgusting how ugly can human get ? I genuinely think he should rot in hell . I did report this to the teacher but like i say the teacher will just reply "i will talk to him" and nothing is ever done that's is why i think if you bullied stand up for yourself be the change . I want to encourage people like me and even me to start being the change instead of hoping for someone to stop it or even kill yourself . I will not kill myself because they hate me for being me and that they think i deserve to be bullied I don't think a scumbag is worth my life and i will be the change  .

             
      Back to to the b with a itch . Since its kinda of difficult to imagine what sort of person she is I'm gotta just post her picture on my blog .  just kidding .. never gotta happen my blog is sacred and she not sacred .
i generally see her like the pest which i hate which is cockroaches which is disgusting .i know it doesn't bite but that thing i swear its evil and ewww ..
 I'm gotta stop thinking of all those haters/bullies its wasting my brain cells . so this concludes everything on her i guess theres a special connection between her and me sometimes i want show her the middle finger and just say " get of my back you b with a itch " 

      lately girls been really hands on and even for myself as a girl it scares me a little bit . Gosh .... girls these days are violent and very extremely hands on you know . I'm sorry guys i have no idea why its like that .

.......................A pretty line that cut across ..................................................................................
so my next entry would be on me part 2 i guess i think maybe who knows or other random topic i decided to write .
 I gotta end of with a quote " no one can truly save you are on your own " 
can you save a person that seeks death constantly  ? can you save someone from them self ?
The answer is no .
To be honest im really glad theres true man out there the one that i just describe it is not a guy .It doesn't deserve to be call a guy because there is no gut in that person and the fact that it  feels no guilt hitting a girl .

-love, hugs katherine