bullying

      
       Recently i haven't been writing entries updating stuff because really busy lately . I have decided to write about this news article .This is just my opinion on certain stuff Recently theres a news on a girl who was rapped by his "father " , and subsequently the girl decided to end this once and for all by chopping his "fathers" head . And the villagers are protecting the girl by refusing to hand the girl over the girl to the police for the sake of protecting the girl is what they claim. And what  i really think is that the law enforcer or the government needs to tighten the hold on laws that serve to protect us the women .for example the India rape incident .furthermore that at certain parts of India there is also a rape corner this clearly shows that if the government don't do something criminals will continue to have their ways

     I think that we as women also need to stand up for our self whether is it to our bully people that hurt us .we need to protect our self because if we don't no one will .so i think the key to stopping violence is to stand up to the aggressor .you know the creepy thing about the bullying is first they would exclude you , so you be along no friend plus family wouldn't understand and you be alone . then they will say nasty stuff about each and every time, to the point that  they make you believe them.

     Ive personally being bullied and  that i gone thought the same shit , i think the main thing is to stay strong . i know that it hurt , i know that you feel worthless sometimes but think about the future there is so much a head of you . Are you willing to let so pathetic bunch of bullies destroyed it . i think that bullies are pathetic because they personally do not feel good about themselves and they make others feel worse about themselves so they could feel slightly better , which is pathetic . i don't think bully deserves pity at all mainly because the fact that they make this society , humans look so much disgusting .

 

       In some articles i have read that the bully actually have some trauma that is so stressful that they vent their anger , frustration and stress on their victim to feel slightly better .so on certain level i feel sorry for them but that doesn't give them right to go around hurting other people inflicting pain so that others could feel what they feel . its like killers going around killing people because their life aren't smoothly a crime is crime . bullying is bullying .And it indeed could kill , for example the Amanda  Todd  incident that not just emphasize the importance of stopping bullying but also the that making people see that bullying could actually kill. though some people have finally realize that their action could actually result in such a outcome but most of them fail to understand that bullying is lethal . at a price of Amanda death and many other that have fallen prey to the bullying majority still doesn't  understand that what they are doing is actually bullying .
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I'm sorry if my grammar aren't fabulous . 
-Katherine

randomn post number 2 / stuff that im thinking recently

    
            I was actually wondering what to write today because i kinda made a promise to do at least one entry per day .Its really strange that after each entry i would  think of what to write for my next entry and i have lots (okay , fine .. maybe just a few :)ideas on what to write about but whenever i start to writing the idea just vanish  without a trace .

         I recently was thinking of the domain thing and changing name for my webs site so that's that . Anyways it  also get me thinking on producing some you tube videos tooo , don't know how it will turn out but will see .p.s you might also notice i change the blog name to Katherine_hokahyee Cox theres like so many freaking  people name hokahyee(thought i was the only people called  kahyee ) . so just some heads up that came really late .

           today i plan to finish my holiday project poster all alone (cox my other group members have hideous handwriting and i am the leader. so i was automatically promoted to poster making :'1 ) but i did basically nothing just slack and hang on my computer hoping that miraculously there would a new episode on running man .
         you probably thinking why did i use miraculously because it only updates on every Monday . so there this one time that it updated  late,  i was really irritated and happy at the same time because it came at last  . pp.s i love running man and all my other supernatural television show , i would totally name them but you would probably get irritated so moving on maybe sometime i should do a entry on how much I'm crazy about my television shows .
 
    OMG! OMG! JUST NOW THE FREAKING COMPUTER JUST HANG . AND I WAS SO FUCKING TERRIFIED(i was going like '" NONOONONONO this is not happening" ) THAT WHAT I HAVE WRITTEN WOULD BE GONE . , i thought it would be freaking gone and it scared the crap out of me but thank god its not gone  I'm like super relieve.

(My favourite scene from one of the episode that I'm watching . For your information , did you know that while waiting for the newest episode i would totally see it over and over again from the first episode. From this you could totally see the level of my craziness for this episode .because i never ever watch or read book or television show except this  twice because i literally remember the story line inside out . so while re watching it i kinda knew what would happen next but i swear its like I'm addicted to it  )
   

Me

    I thought that i should write an entry about who i am and who i long to be,  So this entry would be all about me , that totally sounds narcissist but whatever .  My name is Katherine hokahyee and I'm a Singaporean my race Chinese , i don't have a religion but i have been expose to both Buddhisms and christian so I'm a mix :) hhaha . My belief would be treasure yourself  , love yourself ,never leave any regrets . that's what i hope to achieve because sometimes people tend to consider too much on what others think and hurting themselves  because of it . i know that i was once that people that wanted to belong to somewhere that wanted to fit in  and was trying so hard that it hurts .  so one day i decided that , I'm not going to let anyone just trample on how  i feel , i would do what i think is right .I would not let others judge who i am and what i am like so a quote from someone i respect : " you a bitch to me ,  Cox you ain't me '" , tell that to the person that have been putting you down .  And i would work towards my dream , i would  not care what others think because this is my life not others .And that i think humans are born special not to fit in but to shine uniquely like a diamond . p.s my dream is to be a history / social studies  or maybe Chinese language teacher.

         I also think that if you pay attention to the little things in life , you could actually see the beauty in everything . that's basically why whenever i feel stress up , hurt or tired i would look up in the sky .I don't why it makes me feel at peace and relax . I may seem somewhat mature that's definitely not me sometimes i may be a little lazy( okay , really lazy ) , a little impulsive , a little clean freakish (is that a word ?) , a little too active , a little emotional (girls characteristic ....) , a little scatty cats ( i hate horror movie but cant resist to take a peak but then regret when i started to get nightmare), a little crazy , a little artistic , a little gloomy (I know sometimes I'm conflicting ) Give that a mix and you got the one and only Katherine

(me and the guard at president's resident )















           

                                                                         
(took this while i was going to tuition )

Randomn thoughts / stuff

       Lately , its the June holiday and i basically do nothing but slack with the occasional visit to the school .
I have no idea why i wanted started a blog , i guess you know its better than keeping a diary . when i was young i tried keeping a diary and stuff but it turns out that am not a diary person .
I'm too lazy to do a entry every single day and i do entry only when I'm totally pissed off and need to vent out my anger . so my diary wasn't really occupied and i meant  it literally.

 

     And yesterday i saw a you tube video on teens  react to Amanda Todd it got me thinking that if Amanda had a friend , she wouldn't have committed suicide . if i was a friend i wouldn't leave her like what her friends did . And i kinda felt guilty to a certain extend , so to all the people out there if someones bullying  you must not suffer in silence and do what i do be your own knight in shining Armour. fight back !  I have this quote that i sorta invented it goes like this  you  not a freaking princess living in a castle waiting for your  saviour , be your own knight fight you're own war. That's what i try to achieve , that's the attitude i want to have facing daily life . As you know life sometimes is a real bitch and that's why i think that it is important to have the right shebang to faced the bitch . Also one thing i learn from OBS that is to not regret if you want something you fight for , and that for some thing theres only once in alife time so treasure it .

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